How to Work on Patience and Waiting in Children

Working patience and waiting in a child is a task that requires a lot of skill, love and dedication. It is a fundamental part of child development and a skill that will be useful throughout a child's life. As a nanny, you have the opportunity to help shape these skills in positive ways.

Understanding the Child

First, it's important to understand that young children naturally have a very different sense of time than adults. They are still learning to understand the concept of time and patience is a skill that needs to be learned and practiced.

Modelling Patience

One of the most effective ways to teach a child patience is by example. Be patient with the child and others. Demonstrate how to deal with frustration in a calm and controlled manner. Children learn a lot through observation, so by modeling patience you are teaching them how to behave.

Establishing Routines

Establishing regular routines can also help teach patience. Routines give children a sense of security and predictability, which can help them feel more peaceful and patient. Try to establish consistent routines for meals, bedtimes, and other daily activities.

Practicing Waiting

Another effective way to teach patience is through practice. This can be done through games and activities that require the child to wait their turn. Board games, puzzles, and other activities that require turns are great ways to practice waiting.

Positive Reinforcement

Finally, it is important to use positive reinforcement when the child demonstrates patience. This can be done through praise, small rewards, or simply giving the child attention when he is being patient. This reinforcement will encourage them to continue to practice patience.

Working patience and waiting in a child can be challenging, but it is a valuable skill well worth the effort. As a nanny, you have the opportunity to help shape these skills in positive ways and positively influence your child's development.