What outreach messaging is (and what it is not)
Outreach messaging is the set of short, purposeful messages you send to potential interviewees to invite them into a customer conversation. Its job is not to sell your idea, pitch a solution, or convince someone you are right. Its job is to (1) get a reply, (2) secure a time to talk, and (3) set expectations so the interview is productive.
Think of outreach as a micro-commitment ladder: first you earn a response, then you earn a calendar slot, then you earn honest detail. If your message tries to jump straight to “buy this” or “tell me what features you want,” you will either get ignored or get biased, polite feedback.
Two outcomes to optimize for
- Response rate: the percentage of people who reply at all. This is mainly driven by relevance, clarity, and low effort required.
- Show rate: the percentage of scheduled calls that actually happen. This is driven by clear logistics, reminders, and making it easy to reschedule.
Principles of effective outreach messages
1) Make it about them, not you
People respond when they can quickly see why the message is relevant to their world. Replace “I’m building…” with “I’m trying to understand how people who do X handle Y.” You can mention you’re exploring a project, but keep it secondary.
2) Ask for a small, specific commitment
“Can I pick your brain sometime?” creates work for the reader. Instead, ask for a 15–20 minute call, propose two time windows, and offer an easy alternative (answering 3 questions by email, or a quick voice note).
3) Reduce perceived risk
Common concerns: “Is this a sales pitch?”, “Will this waste time?”, “Will my info be shared?” Address these proactively in one line: “Not selling anything—just learning.” If appropriate, add: “I won’t share your name or company.”
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4) Use plain language and short lines
Most outreach is read on a phone. Aim for 60–120 words in the first message. Use short sentences. Avoid jargon, buzzwords, and long backstory.
5) Personalize one detail (not five)
Personalization is not writing an essay about their career. It’s one credible signal you chose them intentionally: a role, a post they wrote, a community you share, or a specific context you noticed.
6) Offer a fair “thank you” without bribing
A small token (coffee gift card, donation, or a useful summary of findings) can help, but keep it modest and optional. The goal is to respect time, not to buy opinions. If you can’t offer anything, be transparent and emphasize the low time ask.
Choose the right channel and format
Best for professionals, B2B roles, and longer scheduling threads. You can include a calendar link if you have one, but don’t force it; offer times in the message too.
LinkedIn direct message
Good for reaching specific job titles. Keep the first message extra short. Often you’ll need a second message to schedule.
Warm intros (friends, colleagues, community members)
Highest conversion. The “script” is partly for the introducer: you want to make it easy for them to forward a short note.
Communities (Slack/Discord/Facebook groups)
Use a short post that invites volunteers, then move to DM for scheduling. Respect group rules and avoid sounding like market research spam.
In-person (events, meetups, coworking spaces)
Great for quick scheduling. Your script becomes a 20-second verbal ask followed by exchanging contact info and sending a confirmation message immediately.
Step-by-step: build an outreach message that gets replies
Step 1: Write a one-sentence “relevance hook”
This is the line that answers: “Why are you contacting me?” Examples:
- “I noticed you manage operations for a small clinic.”
- “Saw your post about onboarding new SDRs.”
- “You mentioned in the community you run a 5-person ecommerce brand.”
Step 2: State the learning goal in one sentence
Keep it about their current workflow and decisions, not your product. Examples:
- “I’m trying to understand how clinics handle appointment no-shows and reminders today.”
- “I’m learning how small ecommerce teams manage returns and customer emails during peak weeks.”
Step 3: Make a clear, low-friction ask
Specify duration, format, and what you need from them.
- “Would you be open to a 15-minute Zoom call this week?”
- “Could I ask you 6–8 questions over a quick phone call?”
Step 4: Remove the two biggest objections
Usually: sales pitch and time. Example line: “Not selling anything—this is purely research, and I’ll keep it to 15 minutes.”
Step 5: Propose two time windows (and an alternative)
Example: “Tue 11–1 or Thu 3–5?” plus “If easier, I can send 3 questions by email.”
Step 6: Close with an easy reply
Make it simple to respond with one word: “Yes,” “No,” or “Next week.” Example: “If either time works, just reply ‘Tue’ or ‘Thu.’”
Outreach scripts you can copy and adapt
Script 1: Cold email to a professional (general)
Subject: Quick question about how you handle [task/context] at [company/type of org]
Hi [Name],
I’m reaching out because I saw you’re [role] at [Company] and you’re close to [relevant task].
I’m trying to understand how people in [their role/context] currently deal with [problem area]—what’s working, what’s painful, and what you’ve tried.
Would you be open to a 15-minute call this week? Not selling anything—just learning.
I can do [Day] between [time window] or [Day] between [time window]. If easier, I can send 3 questions by email.
Thanks,
[Your name]
[One credibility line: “I’m a former [role]” OR “I’m exploring a small project in this space”]
[Optional: LinkedIn / website]Script 2: LinkedIn DM (first message)
Hi [Name]—quick question. I’m learning how [role] teams handle [task] today (not selling anything). Would you be open to a 15-min chat? If yes, I can do Tue 11–1 or Thu 3–5.Script 3: LinkedIn DM (if they accept connection but don’t reply)
Thanks for connecting, [Name]. If now isn’t a good time, no worries—would next week be better, or should I send 3 questions by message?Script 4: Warm intro request (to a friend/connector)
Hey [Connector], do you know anyone who is [role] at a [type of company] and deals with [task/context]?
I’m doing short 15-min research calls to understand how they handle [problem area] today (not selling anything).
If you can think of 1–2 people, could you intro us? Here’s a forwardable note:Forwardable intro:
“Hi [Name]—my friend [You] is doing quick research to understand how [role] teams handle [task] today. Not a sales pitch. Would you be open to a 15-min chat? If yes, you can reply with a couple times that work.”Script 5: Community post (to recruit volunteers)
Looking for 5 volunteers: 15-min research chats
I’m trying to understand how people who [do X] handle [task/problem area] today. Not selling anything—this is for learning.
If you’re a [role/type] and willing to share your current process, comment “I’m in” and I’ll DM you to schedule. (Happy to share a short summary of what I learn.)Script 6: In-person ask (20 seconds)
“Hey—quick question. I’m talking to a few [role] folks to understand how they handle [task] today. Would you be open to a 15-minute call this week? If yes, what’s the best email/number to send a calendar invite?”Interview scheduling: make it effortless and professional
Scheduling is where many interviews die. People intend to help, then the back-and-forth becomes annoying. Your goal is to minimize steps while keeping the person in control.
Option A: Propose times (best for cold outreach)
Offer two windows in their time zone and ask them to pick one. This feels human and doesn’t require clicking links.
Option B: Calendar link (best after interest is confirmed)
Once they say “sure,” you can send a link: “Here’s my calendar if that’s easiest.” Always include an alternative: “Or tell me a couple times that work for you.”
Option C: Asynchronous alternative (for busy people)
Offer to do it by email or voice note. This can save interviews that would otherwise never happen.
Scheduling message template (after they say yes)
Awesome—thank you.
Does [Day] at [specific time] work? (I’m in [Time zone].)
If easier, here’s a scheduling link: [link].
I’ll send a calendar invite with a Zoom/phone option. And just to confirm: this is research only—no sales pitch.Calendar invite checklist
- Title: “15-min research chat: [topic]” (avoid “demo” or “pitch”).
- Duration: keep what you promised (15–20 minutes).
- Location: Zoom/Meet link or phone number (include both if possible).
- Description: 2 lines: purpose + reassurance (“Not selling; learning about your current process”).
- Time zone: confirm explicitly if cross-region.
Reminder and no-show prevention scripts
24-hour reminder (email or DM)
Looking forward to tomorrow, [Name]. Still good for [time] [time zone]? Here’s the link again: [link].10-minute reminder (optional for high no-show channels)
Hi [Name]—I’m on the call whenever you’re ready: [link]. No worries if you need to reschedule.If they no-show (keep it polite and easy)
Hi [Name]—I waited on the link for a bit and figured something came up. Want to reschedule? I can do [two new windows], or I can send 3 questions by email.Follow-up sequences that don’t feel spammy
Most replies come from follow-ups, not the first message. The key is to follow up with new value or reduced friction, not guilt.
Simple 3-touch follow-up plan
- Touch 1 (Day 0): initial outreach.
- Touch 2 (Day 3–4): short bump + alternative format.
- Touch 3 (Day 7–10): final note + graceful exit.
Follow-up #1 (bump)
Hi [Name]—quick bump in case this got buried. Would a 15-min chat be possible this week? If not, I can send 3 questions by email—whatever is easiest.Follow-up #2 (final, with exit)
Hi [Name]—last note from me. If this isn’t a priority right now, no worries. If you’re open to it later, I’m trying to learn how [role] teams handle [task] and would value your perspective.How to tailor scripts to different situations
When you have low credibility
If you’re new and don’t have a strong background, don’t overcompensate with big claims. Use honesty and specificity.
I’m new to this space and trying to understand how [role] handles [task] before I build anything. I’d really value 15 minutes of your perspective.When you have high credibility
Use one line to signal you’re worth talking to, then move on.
I used to lead [relevant function] at [type of company], and I’m researching how teams handle [task] today.When reaching senior people
Shorter message, tighter ask, more respect for time.
Would you be open to a 12-minute call? I’m mapping how [industry] leaders approach [task] today. Not selling—pure research.When reaching frontline practitioners
Emphasize practicality and that you want the messy reality.
I’m trying to understand the day-to-day workflow—what actually happens, not what the process doc says. Could I ask you a few questions?Common mistakes that reduce response quality
Pitching the solution inside the invite
If you describe your product in detail, people will start reacting to your framing instead of sharing their reality. Keep the invite focused on their current process.
Asking leading questions in the outreach
Avoid: “Do you struggle with X?” This pushes them toward agreement. Prefer: “How do you handle X today?”
Overpromising confidentiality without thinking it through
Only promise what you can keep. A safe line is: “I won’t share your name in any notes I share.” If you plan to record, mention it later when scheduling and ask permission.
Making scheduling hard
Don’t require account creation, long forms, or multiple links. The easiest path should be replying with a time.
Mini playbooks (practical examples)
Example playbook: recruiting 10 interviews in 7 days via LinkedIn
- Day 1: Send 20 connection requests with a short note (Script 2). Target people with clear relevance.
- Day 2: For those who accept, send the same short ask again (even shorter). Propose two windows.
- Day 4: Follow-up bump to non-responders (Follow-up #1).
- Day 5–7: Confirm times, send calendar invites immediately, and send 24-hour reminders.
Example playbook: turning a community post into scheduled calls
- Post: Use Script 5 with clear criteria (“If you’re a [role/type]”).
- DM to volunteers: Thank them, ask one qualifying question, then schedule.
DM: Thanks for volunteering. Quick check—do you currently [do X / work in Y context]? If yes, could we do 15 minutes? I can do Tue 11–1 or Thu 3–5.Example playbook: saving a “maybe later” response
When someone says they’re busy, don’t push. Offer a smaller option and a specific future time.
No problem—thanks for considering. Would it be easier if I sent 3 questions by email? If you prefer a call, I can also reach back out in two weeks.Operational tips: track outreach like a simple pipeline
Even for a small project, treat outreach like a lightweight pipeline so you don’t lose threads.
- Columns: Target → Messaged → Replied → Scheduled → Completed → No-show → Follow-up needed.
- Fields to note: channel, date of last touch, proposed times, time zone, and any personal detail for rapport.
- Rule of thumb: if you don’t have a next action (a scheduled time or a follow-up date), the lead will stall.
Optional: scripts for consent to record and sharing notes
Asking to record (after rapport, at start of call)
Would you mind if I record this so I don’t miss anything? The recording is just for my notes and won’t be shared. Totally fine if you prefer not.Offering to share a summary (after the call)
Thanks again—this was really helpful. If you’d like, I can send a short summary of what I’m learning across interviews (no names attached).