Why a Shot List Should Be Flexible (Not a Script)
A wedding shot list is a memory safety net, not a minute-by-minute command. Its job is to prevent missed essentials (rings, first kiss, key family groupings) while leaving you free to react to real moments. The most useful lists are built around story coverage: you capture what happened, how it felt, and where it happened—without forcing the day to fit your checklist.
Think of your shot list as three layers you can scale up or down:
- Non-negotiables: legally/ceremonially important moments and must-have people.
- Story builders: establishing shots, transitions, atmosphere, and context.
- Emotional details: hands, tears, reactions, touch, small gestures that connect scenes.
The “Wide–Medium–Tight” Story Framework
For each phase of the day, aim to collect:
- Establishing (wide): where we are, who is present, what the environment feels like.
- Moment (medium): the action with readable faces and body language.
- Emotion/detail (tight): hands, expressions, objects, micro-reactions that add meaning.
Practical example: During vows, a wide shot shows the setting and guests; a medium shot shows the couple exchanging vows; a tight shot shows a trembling hand holding the vow card or a tear on a parent’s cheek.
How to Build Your Shot List in 6 Steps
Step 1: Identify the “Must Not Miss” Moments
Start with moments that cannot be recreated:
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- Key ceremony beats (vows, rings, kiss)
- Primary entrances (processional, reception entrance)
- Toasts and first dances
- Formal family groupings requested by the couple
Step 2: Add Story Context by Phase
Organize the list by phases (prep, ceremony, portraits, reception). This keeps you from hunting through a long checklist while the day moves quickly.
Step 3: Add “Connection Shots” Between Phases
These are the glue images that make galleries feel like a story instead of a set of events:
- Walking from prep to ceremony location
- Guests arriving and greeting
- Couple exiting ceremony space and being congratulated
- Room reveal before guests enter reception
Step 4: Mark Priority Levels
Use a simple code:
A= essential (deliver even on rushed days)B= strongly recommended (adds story depth)C= optional (nice-to-have if time allows)
Step 5: Convert the List into a Working Order
Within each phase, order shots from easiest to most time-sensitive. For example, during prep, start with room and details (before clutter grows), then interactions, then final touches.
Step 6: Customize for the Couple’s Priorities
Ask for 3–5 “most important photos” from each partner (or from the couple together). Add those as A items. This prevents a generic list from overriding what matters to them.
Phase-Based Shot Lists (Practical Coverage)
1) Prep: Details + Interactions
Prep photos set the tone and introduce characters. Aim for a mix of styled details and real interactions.
| Type | What to capture | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Establishing | Exterior of prep location, room wide, window light, people present | Do early, before bags and clutter spread |
| Details | Dress on hanger, shoes, rings, invitations/paper goods, bouquet, jewelry, perfume/cologne | Include at least one “context” detail (e.g., rings on invitation) |
| Interactions | Hair/makeup moments, friends/family helping, laughter, quiet nerves | Look for hands and faces together |
| Final touches | Buttoning/zip, veil placement, tie/coat, cufflinks, watch, boutonniere | Ask them to do it near a clean background if possible |
| Emotional beats | Letter reading, gift exchange, parent reactions, first look (if applicable) | Position to see both faces and reactions |
Prep “A” Priorities (when time is limited)
ADress + rings + one invitation/photo of stationeryAOne wide of the prep spaceAFinal touch moment (veil, jacket, boutonniere)AOne meaningful interaction (parent/friend helping or reaction)
2) Ceremony: The Irreplaceable Sequence + Reactions
Ceremony coverage is about sequence (what happened) and reaction (how it felt). Build your list to include both.
- Before ceremony: venue establishing, ceremony space wide, key decor (altar/chuppah/mandap/floral), guests arriving, programs/signage.
- Processional: wedding party entrances, partner’s reaction, parents’ reactions, flower child/ring bearer (if present).
- Core moments: wide of ceremony, medium of vows, tight of hands, ring exchange, officiant pronouncement, first kiss.
- After kiss: recessional, congratulations, hugs, candid joy.
Ceremony “Reaction Pairing” Technique
For each major moment, pair the action with a reaction:
- Partner entering aisle → other partner’s face
- Vows → parents/close friends reacting
- Ring exchange → hands close-up
- First kiss → guests cheering
Ceremony “A” Priorities (when time is limited)
AEstablishing wide of ceremony spaceAProcessional: key entrances + partner reactionAVows (medium) + at least one reactionARing exchange (tight hands + medium)AFirst kissARecessional + cheering
3) Portraits: Couple, Wedding Party, and Families
Portraits are where structure helps most. The goal is to move efficiently while keeping expressions natural. Your shot list should be grouping-based rather than pose-based.
Couple Portraits (Core Set)
AOne strong wide with environment (venue/landscape)AOne medium walking or gentle movementAOne tight emotional close-up (foreheads, embrace, laughter)BOne backlit/silhouette option (if conditions allow)BOne “quiet moment” (stillness, eye contact)
Wedding Party (Efficient Coverage)
AFull group (clean, symmetrical)APartner with their side (two separate groups)BFun walking shot or celebratory cheerBSmall clusters (pairs/trios) if time allows
Family Formals (Build a Repeatable System)
Create a family formal list that is names-based and relationship-based (not “random groups”). Keep it short and logical.
Step-by-step family formal workflow:
- 1) Start with the largest group (both families together if requested).
- 2) Remove people gradually to create smaller groups (this avoids calling people back).
- 3) Photograph each grouping twice: one looking at camera, one with natural interaction (if time allows).
- 4) Confirm “must-have elders” early so they can sit down or leave.
Example grouping order (customize to family structure):
ACouple + both immediate familiesACouple + Partner A immediate familyACouple + Partner B immediate familyACouple + parents (each side)ACouple + siblings (each side)BCouple + grandparents (each side)BCouple + extended family (if requested)
Portrait “A” Priorities (when time is limited)
ACouple: wide + medium + tight (3-shot story)AWedding party: full group + each sideAFamily: both immediate families + each set of parents
4) Reception: Entrances, Toasts, Dances, Candids
Reception coverage is a mix of scheduled highlights and unscripted energy. Your list should protect the key events while leaving room for candid storytelling.
| Reception segment | Must-have shots | Story additions |
|---|---|---|
| Room details | A Wide room before guests, table settings, centerpiece, cake/dessert | B Place cards, signage, favors, bar details |
| Grand entrance | A Couple entering + crowd reaction | B Wedding party entrances |
| Toasts | A Speaker medium + couple reaction + audience reaction | B Tight hands holding mic, tears/laughter close-ups |
| First dances | A Wide + medium + tight emotion | B Parents watching, guests filming/reacting |
| Open dancing | A 10–15 strong candids across the floor | B Small groups, hugs, playful moments, DJ/band |
| Traditions | A Cake cutting, bouquet/garter (if happening) | B After-action reactions and laughter |
Reception Candid Coverage: A Simple Rotation
When the dance floor opens, avoid staying locked in one spot. Rotate through:
- Dance floor edge: reactions, groups forming, people entering/leaving.
- Center dance floor: energy, movement, wide shots.
- Perimeter moments: hugs, conversations, grandparents seated, kids playing.
- One “scene-setter” per hour: wide of the room showing how full/active it is.
Reception “A” Priorities (when time is limited)
ARoom wide + one table detailAEntrances: couple + reactionAToasts: speaker + couple reactionAFirst dance: wide + tightA10 strong dance floor candids
Prioritizing When Time Is Limited (Decision Rules)
The “Irreplaceable First” Rule
If you’re behind, prioritize moments that cannot be recreated:
- Ceremony beats (vows, rings, kiss)
- Key reactions (parents, partner)
- Essential family formals (requested by couple)
The “One of Each” Rule for Story Cohesion
Even on a rushed day, try to capture at least one of each:
- Place: one establishing wide per phase
- People: one clear portrait of key players (couple, parents, wedding party)
- Emotion: one tight reaction per major moment
- Details: rings + one decor/detail per phase
The “Three-Shot Story” for Any Moment
When you have 30–60 seconds for something (cake cutting, quick toast, surprise hug), capture:
- Wide: show the scene
- Medium: show the action
- Tight: show the emotion/detail
Adapting Shot Lists to Different Cultures and Traditions
A master list should be modular. Instead of hardcoding one type of ceremony, build tradition blocks you can swap in based on the couple’s plans.
Step-by-Step: Create a “Tradition Block” System
- 1) Ask for the names of rituals (not just “we have some traditions”). Write them as headings.
- 2) For each ritual, list: (a) the key action, (b) who participates, (c) what object(s) matter, (d) the emotional reactions to watch.
- 3) Assign coverage angles: one establishing, one medium, one tight detail.
- 4) Mark restrictions: any no-flash/no-movement rules, or areas you cannot enter.
- 5) Add a fallback: if you can’t move, plan a single position that still captures action + reactions.
Examples of Tradition Blocks (Template-Style)
| Tradition block | Key action | Details to include | Reactions to watch |
|---|---|---|---|
| Processional variations | Multiple entrances, escorts, symbolic order | Special garments, aisle decor | Partner/parents as each person enters |
| Ritual objects | Exchange/handling of symbolic items | Hands, object close-up, placement | Officiant + family witnessing |
| Group blessings | Family/community participation | Circle formation, joined hands | Tears, smiles, elders’ expressions |
| Music/dance traditions | Planned cultural dances | Footwork, attire movement | Crowd cheering, couple joy |
Practical tip: If you don’t know a tradition, don’t guess the “important moment.” Ask: “Which exact moment should I be ready for—when does everyone react?” Then build your three-shot coverage around that cue.
Printable Master Shot List (Copy/Paste)
PREP (DETAILS + INTERACTIONS) [A/B/C] Notes: ____________
A Exterior/establishing of prep location
A Wide of prep room (clean, contextual)
A Dress (full) + dress detail (lace/buttons)
A Rings (both) + ring box
B Invitation suite / stationery (at least one frame)
B Shoes
B Jewelry (earrings/necklace)
C Perfume/cologne
B Bouquet / boutonniere
B Vows/letters/gifts (if happening)
A Hair/makeup in progress (interaction)
A Final touches: veil/jacket/tie/boutonniere
A Parent/friend helping (hands + faces)
B Individual portraits (each partner) ready
B Group candids with friends/family
B First look (if applicable): approach + reactions + embrace
CEREMONY [A/B/C] Notes: ____________
A Venue exterior establishing
A Ceremony space wide (before it starts)
B Decor details (altar/chuppah/mandap/florals)
B Guests arriving/greeting
A Processional: key entrances
A Partner reaction during processional
A Wide of ceremony with couple + officiant
A Vows (medium of each partner)
B Tight emotion during vows (tears, hands)
A Ring exchange (hands close-up + medium)
A Pronouncement + first kiss
A Recessional (walking out) + cheering
B Congratulations/hugs immediately after
PORTRAITS [A/B/C] Notes: ____________
A Couple: wide environmental
A Couple: medium walking/interaction
A Couple: tight emotional close-up
B Couple: alternate angle/location (if time)
A Wedding party: full group
A Wedding party: each side with partner
B Wedding party: fun/cheer/walking
A Family formals: both immediate families (if requested)
A Family formals: couple + each set of parents
A Family formals: couple + siblings (each side)
B Family formals: grandparents (each side)
B Extended family groupings (as requested)
RECEPTION [A/B/C] Notes: ____________
A Reception room wide before guests
B Table settings/centerpieces
B Place cards/signage
B Cake/dessert
A Grand entrance: couple + crowd reaction
B Wedding party entrances
A Toasts: speaker + couple reaction
B Audience reactions during toasts
A First dance: wide + tight
A Parent dances (if happening): wide + tight
B Dance floor opening energy (wide)
A Candids: 10–15 strong dance floor moments
B Candids: hugs/conversations at tables
A Cake cutting (if happening)
A Bouquet/garter/traditions (if happening)
B Night portrait / exit (if happening)
TRADITION BLOCKS (CUSTOM) Notes: ____________
Ritual name: ____________ Key moment cue: ____________
A Establishing wide
A Medium action
A Tight detail/emotion
A Key reactions (who?): ____________Top 30 Minimal Shot List (For Rushed Days)
Use this when the schedule compresses. It’s designed to still produce a complete story: place, people, emotion, and key events.
- Prep establishing wide (one frame)
- Dress (full)
- Rings (close-up)
- Invitation/stationery (one frame)
- Final touch (veil/jacket/tie)
- Meaningful prep interaction (helping hands + faces)
- One ready portrait of each partner
- Ceremony space wide (before start)
- Processional: key entrance
- Partner reaction to entrance
- Wide of ceremony with couple
- Vows: Partner A (medium)
- Vows: Partner B (medium)
- Vows reaction (parent/close friend)
- Ring exchange (hands tight)
- Ring exchange (medium)
- First kiss
- Recessional (walking out)
- Congratulations/hug moment
- Couple portrait: wide environmental
- Couple portrait: medium interaction
- Couple portrait: tight emotional close-up
- Wedding party full group
- Couple + Partner A parents
- Couple + Partner B parents
- Reception room wide (before guests or early)
- Grand entrance (couple + reaction)
- Toast: speaker + couple reaction (one combined sequence)
- First dance (wide + tight sequence)
- 10 strong reception candids (dance floor + perimeter)