A real estate transaction is a coordinated project with multiple specialists. Each person has a different incentive (what they want most), a different set of documents, and a different “window” when they become most active. As a Realtor, your job is often to keep the handoffs clean: the right information to the right party at the right time.
Responsibility Cards (Role-by-Role)
Buyer (Purchaser)
Incentive: Buy the right home on acceptable terms, minimize risk, and control total monthly cost.
- Primary duties: Define needs and budget; provide financial documentation to lender; review disclosures; make decisions on offer terms, inspection requests, and repair credits; arrange insurance; complete final walk-through; bring funds to close (or confirm wire).
- Typical documents they touch: Purchase agreement/offer; counteroffers/addenda; lender application and disclosures; inspection report; repair request/response; insurance binder; closing disclosure; final settlement statement; HOA documents (if applicable).
- When you interact: Pre-offer strategy; offer drafting; inspection decision-making; appraisal outcomes; loan conditions; final walk-through; closing day logistics.
- Common friction points: “Sticker shock” on monthly payment; misunderstanding contingencies and deadlines; emotional reactions to inspection findings; delays providing lender documents; confusion about what is negotiable.
Seller
Incentive: Net the most money with acceptable certainty and timing, while minimizing disruption and liability.
- Primary duties: Prepare property for market; disclose known issues; approve listing terms; review offers; negotiate repairs/credits; keep property accessible for showings/inspections/appraisal; maintain condition through closing; move out per contract.
- Typical documents they touch: Listing agreement; seller disclosures; purchase agreement and addenda; repair agreements; HOA documents; payoff authorization; settlement statement.
- When you interact: Pricing and prep decisions; offer review; inspection negotiations; appraisal issues; closing timeline and move-out coordination.
- Common friction points: Overpricing expectations; reluctance to disclose; pushback on repairs; occupancy/move-out timing; misunderstanding net proceeds (payoffs, fees, prorations).
Listing Agent (Seller’s Agent)
Incentive: Sell the property on terms that satisfy the seller, reduce fall-through risk, and protect the seller’s position.
- Primary duties: Market the property; manage showings; collect and present offers; negotiate; coordinate seller-side timelines; provide disclosures/HOA docs; manage inspection and appraisal access; communicate status to all parties.
- Typical documents they touch: MLS input sheets; seller disclosures; purchase agreement/counters; inspection responses; appraisal scheduling confirmations; escrow/title instructions (varies by state); repair invoices/receipts (if provided).
- When you interact: Before offer (questions, comps context, disclosures); during negotiation; inspection scheduling and repair negotiations; appraisal access; closing logistics (keys, possession).
- Common friction points: Slow disclosure delivery; unclear showing/inspection access; “multiple offer” communication issues; disagreements on repair scope; last-minute condition changes.
Buyer’s Agent
Incentive: Help the buyer secure the home with manageable risk, clean timelines, and a smooth closing.
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- Primary duties: Draft offer and addenda; explain deadlines; coordinate inspections and quotes; manage negotiation items; track loan and title milestones; prepare buyer for closing costs and logistics; document communications.
- Typical documents they touch: Offer package; contingency notices; inspection request/repair addenda; appraisal dispute support (comps); closing disclosure review checklist; final walk-through notes.
- When you interact: Daily throughout the transaction—especially offer drafting, inspection period, appraisal, and pre-closing.
- Common friction points: Misaligned expectations on concessions; missed deadlines; unclear repair language; over-reliance on verbal agreements; coordinating multiple vendors under time pressure.
Broker (Managing Broker / Brokerage)
Incentive: Compliance, risk management, and supporting agents to complete transactions correctly.
- Primary duties: Provide oversight; ensure required forms and disclosures are used; review contracts (as required by brokerage policy); handle disputes/complaints escalation; maintain transaction files.
- Typical documents they touch: Brokerage-required disclosures; file checklists; compliance forms; commission instructions; transaction audit items.
- When you interact: At contract acceptance (file setup); when unusual clauses appear; when conflict arises; before closing (file completeness).
- Common friction points: Late file submission; missing signatures/initials; unauthorized practice concerns; unclear commission instructions; escalation delays if you wait too long to ask for help.
Lender / Loan Officer
Incentive: Close an approvable loan on time while meeting underwriting and regulatory requirements.
- Primary duties: Pre-approval; lock rate (if applicable); collect borrower documentation; order appraisal; coordinate underwriting; issue loan approval/clear-to-close; provide closing disclosure; fund the loan.
- Typical documents they touch: Loan estimate; disclosures; verification documents (income/assets); appraisal order; underwriting conditions list; closing disclosure; funding authorization.
- When you interact: Before offer (pre-approval strength); immediately after acceptance (loan submission); during appraisal; when conditions arise; pre-closing (clear-to-close and funding timing).
- Common friction points: Buyer delays providing documents; appraisal value shortfall; last-minute credit/income changes; confusion about “cash to close”; rate lock timing; lender communication gaps on conditions.
Escrow Officer / Closing Agent (or Settlement Agent)
Incentive: Neutral, accurate closing: collect documents and funds, follow instructions, and disburse correctly.
- Primary duties: Open escrow; hold earnest money; coordinate signing; prepare settlement statement; collect payoff demands; manage prorations; receive lender funds; disburse proceeds; record documents (or coordinate recording).
- Typical documents they touch: Escrow instructions; settlement statement/closing statement; payoff demands; deed and recording package; wire instructions; signing package.
- When you interact: Right after contract (open escrow); during contingency removals (if required notices); as closing approaches (signing schedule, funds, prorations); day-of closing (recording and confirmation).
- Common friction points: Wire fraud concerns and verification; last-minute fee changes; missing payoff info; scheduling signings; misunderstanding “close” vs “fund” vs “record” (state-specific).
Title Company
Incentive: Deliver clear title (or identify issues) and issue title insurance policies.
- Primary duties: Title search; provide preliminary title report/commitment; identify liens/encumbrances; coordinate curative work; issue owner’s and lender’s title policies; record documents (in many areas, coordinated with closing).
- Typical documents they touch: Preliminary title report/commitment; exceptions list; lien releases; easements/CC&Rs; title insurance policies.
- When you interact: Early (review prelim/commitment); mid-transaction (resolve title issues); pre-close (confirm requirements satisfied).
- Common friction points: Old liens; boundary/easement surprises; name mismatches; unreleased mortgages; HOA liens; delays obtaining releases or probate/trust documentation.
Attorney (Where Applicable)
Incentive: Protect the client’s legal position and reduce liability through contract review and legal advice.
- Primary duties: Review/prepare contract language (state-dependent); negotiate legal terms; advise on title defects, survey issues, and disputes; sometimes manage closing.
- Typical documents they touch: Contract and addenda; attorney review letters; title objections and curative demands; settlement statement review; legal notices.
- When you interact: At contract drafting/acceptance (attorney review periods); when title or boundary issues arise; when disputes escalate beyond normal negotiation.
- Common friction points: Delays during attorney review; “legal vs practical” negotiation tension; unclear scope (what attorney handles vs agent); clients expecting legal advice from agent.
Home Inspector
Incentive: Provide an objective assessment of visible/accessible conditions and safety concerns.
- Primary duties: Inspect major systems; document findings; explain severity and maintenance vs defect; recommend specialist follow-up when needed.
- Typical documents they touch: Inspection agreement; inspection report; photo documentation; add-on reports (radon, sewer scope, pest—varies).
- When you interact: Immediately after acceptance (schedule); at inspection (access, utilities on); after report (repair strategy and negotiation).
- Common friction points: Buyer misreads report as “must fix everything”; seller refuses certain repairs; access issues (attic, crawlspace); utilities off; inspector scope limitations.
Appraiser
Incentive: Provide an independent opinion of value to support lending risk decisions.
- Primary duties: Inspect property; analyze comparable sales; produce appraisal report; note required repairs for loan program (if any).
- Typical documents they touch: Appraisal report; comparable sales grid; repair/condition requirements; reconsideration of value request (if submitted).
- When you interact: During scheduling and access; when value comes in low; when repairs are required for loan approval.
- Common friction points: Low appraisal; missing comps in unique areas; condition issues flagged; delays in scheduling; parties trying to “pressure” appraiser (avoid).
Insurance Agent (Homeowners / Hazard Insurance)
Incentive: Bind a policy that meets lender requirements and accurately prices risk.
- Primary duties: Quote coverage; verify property details; bind policy; provide proof of insurance to lender; coordinate effective date at closing.
- Typical documents they touch: Insurance quote; declarations page; binder; proof of paid premium (if required); claims history reports (sometimes requested).
- When you interact: Early enough to avoid surprises (ideally soon after acceptance); again before closing to confirm binder and payment.
- Common friction points: High premiums; coverage denial (roof age, wildfire/flood zones); confusion about escrowed premiums; last-minute lender requirements (deductible limits, endorsements).
HOA / Condo Management (If Applicable)
Incentive: Enforce community rules, collect dues, and manage shared property; ensure transfer requirements are met.
- Primary duties: Provide resale package/documents; confirm dues and special assessments; handle transfer fees; provide rules, budgets, and meeting minutes; sometimes approve buyers or move-in logistics.
- Typical documents they touch: CC&Rs; bylaws; rules/regulations; budget; reserve study (if available); resale disclosure package; estoppel letter/status letter; paid assessment statements.
- When you interact: Early after acceptance (order docs); during buyer review period; pre-close (confirm fees and prorations); move-in scheduling (elevators, parking).
- Common friction points: Slow document delivery; unexpected special assessments; rental restrictions; insurance gaps (master policy issues); lender condo approval problems.
Contractors / Trades (Plumber, Electrician, Roofer, etc.)
Incentive: Get paid for defined scope; minimize callbacks and liability; schedule efficiently.
- Primary duties: Provide bids/estimates; perform repairs; produce invoices/receipts; sometimes provide permits or warranty info.
- Typical documents they touch: Written estimates; scope-of-work; invoices; receipts; permit documentation (if applicable); warranty paperwork.
- When you interact: After inspection (bids for negotiation); during repair period (access and scheduling); before closing (proof of completion).
- Common friction points: Vague scopes (“repair as needed”); scheduling delays; access limitations; disagreements on quality; permit requirements discovered late; payment timing disputes.
Photographer / Videographer
Incentive: Deliver marketable media on schedule with minimal reshoots.
- Primary duties: Capture photos/video; edit; deliver files; sometimes create floor plans, drone shots, or 3D tours.
- Typical documents they touch: Media licensing agreement; property access instructions; delivery links; model release (rare in residential, but possible).
- When you interact: Pre-listing (schedule and prep checklist); day-of shoot (access, staging readiness); post-shoot (selecting hero images, revisions).
- Common friction points: Home not ready; weather/light issues; turnaround time; mismatched expectations on editing; access/lockbox problems.
Stager
Incentive: Improve presentation to support faster sale and stronger offers; protect inventory and get paid on time.
- Primary duties: Consult on decluttering and layout; deliver/install furniture and decor; coordinate removal; sometimes provide minor cosmetic recommendations.
- Typical documents they touch: Staging proposal; rental agreement; inventory list; damage/insurance terms; schedule confirmations.
- When you interact: Pre-listing consultation; installation before photography; maintenance during listing; removal after closing/possession.
- Common friction points: Budget vs expectations; timing conflicts with painters/cleaners; damage to staging items; seller living-in-staged-home challenges.
Practical Step-by-Step: When Each Role Typically Activates
| Transaction Moment | Most Active People | What You’re Coordinating |
|---|---|---|
| Pre-offer readiness | Buyer, lender/loan officer, buyer’s agent | Pre-approval strength, budget guardrails, offer terms strategy |
| Listing preparation (seller side) | Seller, listing agent, photographer, stager, contractors | Prep timeline, media schedule, repair/refresh decisions |
| Offer to acceptance | Buyer, seller, both agents, sometimes attorney/broker | Contract terms, counters, deadlines, disclosures delivery plan |
| Escrow/title opened | Escrow/closing agent, title company, both agents | Earnest money deposit, prelim/commitment order, contact sheet |
| Inspection period | Inspector, buyer, buyer’s agent, listing agent, contractors | Scheduling access, report review, bids, repair request drafting |
| Appraisal & underwriting | Lender, appraiser, buyer, both agents | Access, comps support, condition items, underwriting conditions |
| HOA document review (if applicable) | HOA/management, buyer, both agents, lender | Ordering package, review deadlines, lender condo requirements |
| Pre-close | Escrow/closing agent, lender, title, insurance agent, both agents | Binder delivered, closing disclosure timing, signing schedule, wire verification |
| Final walk-through & closing | Buyer, buyer’s agent, listing agent, escrow/closing agent | Property condition confirmation, possession timing, keys, recording/funding confirmation |
Common Friction Points and How to Reduce Them (Quick Playbook)
1) Missing or late documents
- Where it shows up: lender conditions, HOA resale package, title curative items.
- Agent action: At acceptance, send a “document clock” email listing due dates and who owns each item (buyer, seller, HOA, lender). Ask for a single point of contact at each company.
2) Vague repair language
- Where it shows up: inspection negotiations and contractor scope.
- Agent action: Convert “fix leak” into measurable scope: location, standard (licensed plumber), documentation (paid invoice), and deadline. If credit is used instead, specify amount and how it appears on the settlement statement.
3) Appraisal shortfall
- Where it shows up: value below contract price.
- Agent action: Confirm contract options (price reduction, buyer cash gap, renegotiation, reconsideration of value). Provide factual comps and upgrades list through the lender’s allowed channel; avoid direct pressure on the appraiser.
4) Wire and closing-day confusion
- Where it shows up: “Are we closed yet?” and wire fraud risk.
- Agent action: Teach the vocabulary early:
signingvsfundingvsrecording(varies by state). Require verbal verification of wire instructions using a known phone number (not an email reply).
Communication Matrix (Who to Contact for What)
| Question / Issue | Primary Contact | Secondary Contact | What to Provide (So They Can Act) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Financing status, rate lock, underwriting conditions, clear-to-close timing | Lender / loan officer | Buyer (for documents), escrow (for fee questions) | Contract, deadlines, buyer contact info, requested condition list, appraisal status |
| Appraisal scheduling, low value, repair requirements for loan | Lender / appraisal desk (per lender process) | Listing agent (access), buyer (options) | Access instructions, relevant comps (factual), list of upgrades, contract price and terms |
| Title issues (liens, easements, name mismatch, unreleased mortgage) | Title officer | Escrow/closing agent, attorney (if complex) | Prelim/commitment item number, supporting docs (payoff, releases), seller legal name/entity docs |
| Escrow/closing fees, prorations, signing appointment, recording/funding confirmation | Escrow officer / closing agent | Lender (CD timing), title (recording requirements) | Preferred signing times, ID requirements, contact sheet, contract close date, possession terms |
| Repairs after inspection (negotiation, scope, invoices) | Listing agent (for seller response) or buyer’s agent (for buyer strategy) | Contractor/trade, inspector (clarifications) | Specific repair request language, report page references, bids/estimates, deadlines in contract |
| Scheduling access: inspection, appraisal, re-inspection, contractor entry | Listing agent (controls access on seller side) | Seller/occupant, showing service/lockbox support | Preferred windows, who will attend, utilities status, special instructions (pets, alarms) |
| Insurance questions: premium, coverage, binder, effective date | Insurance agent | Lender (coverage requirements) | Property address, year/roof age (if known), loan amount, deductible requirements, closing date |
| HOA docs, dues, special assessments, transfer fees, move-in rules | HOA/condo management | Listing agent (ordering), escrow (fee collection) | Property address/unit, seller authorization (if needed), requested package type, deadline for review |
| Legal interpretation or dispute escalation (state-dependent) | Attorney (if involved/required) | Managing broker (process guidance) | Signed contract/addenda, timeline of communications, specific clause in question, desired outcome |